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Jul 25
2011
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Adoption UpdatePosted by Jeffrey Andrews in News , Missionaries , Andrews Family , Adoption |
Many people have been asking about our adoption progress so I decided that I would give an update.
We are still waiting. It has been 1 year and 4 months since we started the process. When we started, the agency told us that it normally takes 12 to 18 months. When we returned to the USA 4 weeks ago, we had to renew our home study. The home study is good for 1 year and has to be renewed each year.
Many of you have no idea how an adoption works (just as I had no idea before we started this) so let me explain the process and maybe it will help you understand a little more of what is going on.
When you start the process of adopting, you have to fill out lots of paperwork explaining exactly what you want. You can be as general or as specific as you want. You really have to make some tough decisions as far as to exactly what you want. We decided that we would like to adopt a child, boy or girl, age ranging from infant to one year old. We have also submitted a family book explaining things about our family, home, etc. with pictures and information. This information is taken and given to perspective mothers who are pregnant and don't want to keep the baby. These mothers look through several families who desire to adopt and then they choose which family they would like to give their baby to. So basically, we are waiting to be matched with a birth mother. In our case, we will most likely be able to be matched with a mother who is pregnant and once the baby is born, we will be able to take the baby home from the hospital. However, it is also possible that the baby will have already been born.
So as of now, we are still in the "waiting game." Some days it seems like it will never happen. However, so many people who have adopted before have told us that they felt the same way and then one day, all of the sudden, they got "THE CALL" and the next thing they knew, they were home with their newly adopted baby.
So for now, we wait. We ask for your prayers in this matter. We are really praying that the adoption would go through before we leave the USA in November. However, we know that the Lord's timing is perfect.












